Thoughtful Leadership in the AI Age | Capability @ Lunch Recap

AI is evolving fast — and for many of us, it’s hard to know where to start. The tools are impressive, the pressure is mounting, and the path forward can feel unclear. In a world shaped by emerging technologies, how do we lead with confidence, curiosity, and care? 

This was the focus of our Capability @ Lunch session with leadership coach Lawrence Green. As the facilitator of Kāpuhipuhi Wellington Uni-Professional’s two AI courses — Working Smarter with AI and Leading With AI: First Steps to Success — Lawrence brought warmth, insight, and a steady hand to a topic that can often feel overwhelming.  

AI Leadership Is Human Leadership 

At the heart of the session was the idea that effective AI leadership isn’t about technical mastery — it’s about guiding ourselves and others in the thoughtful use of AI to serve the greater good. That means staying grounded in human qualities like judgement, empathy, and presence. 

True leadership in this space isn’t about keeping up with every tool or trend. It’s about creating environments where people can thrive, knowing when and how to bring AI into the picture, and modelling responsible use. As Lawrence noted, many people are already using AI, but often without caution or clarity — the desire for quick wins can sometimes hinder long-term outcomes. 

Great leadership in the age of AI doesn’t come from mimicking machines. It comes from the distinctly human capabilities we bring — reading context, making meaning in the moment, connecting with others, and choosing wisely. 

Don’t Let the Tools Do the Thinking 

Lawrence also surfaced an important tension: while large language models (LLMs) are incredibly powerful, they can lull us into superficiality. They’re designed to be helpful, persuasive, and fluent — but that can come at the cost of depth and discernment. 

This is where the concept of cognitive offloading came into focus. We all use tools like AI to lighten our mental load, which can absolutely be a good thing, but it comes with risk: when leaders outsource too much thinking, they may start to lose the very capabilities that make their leadership effective.  

Lawrence made it clear that AI should act as a thought partner, not a replacement for judgement. It’s up to us to do the deeper thinking, to push for clarity and quality, and to resist the pull of “good enough.” Tools alone won’t raise the bar — we need to bring our best thinking to the table. 

Real Responsibility, Real Impact 

There’s a growing need for leaders to claim agency, to lead with intent, and to shape how AI shows up in our organisations and communities. That doesn’t mean mastering every new update. It means being willing to experiment, to learn, and to think carefully about what these tools can (and can’t) do. 

The reality is that AI won’t work out the way you expect — especially if you’re asking the wrong questions. As leaders, we need to stay awake. To reflect on what these tools are capable of in our work, in our teams, and in our sectors. And to remember that thoughtful integration often starts with trial, error, and iteration. 

A New Kind of Collaboration 

The session also explored different levels of collaboration between humans and AI — from purely manual systems to full automation. But rather than focusing only on task division, Lawrence encouraged participants to see AI as a potential partner in achieving new outcomes. The most powerful collaborations emerge not when we delegate, but when we co-create. 

Still, AI is far from perfect. It performs inconsistently, especially outside its core strengths. It can be overconfident, sycophantic, and prone to fabricating information. These blind spots matter. And they require leaders who are willing to ask more, expect more, and stay critically engaged. 

Three Parting Thoughts 

To close the session, participants were invited to carry three reflections forward: 

1. It’s not too late. However far behind you feel, this is still the beginning. There’s time to learn, to lead, and to shape how AI fits into your world. 

2. You know more than you think. You’ve led through uncertainty before. The human insight you bring — about people, purpose, and change — is what matters most now. 

3. You can’t avoid doing the work. No tool can fully carry the weight of leadership. The responsibility remains yours — and that’s a powerful thing. 

As AI becomes more capable, the challenge isn’t just to use it well — it’s to lead well while using it. That takes clarity, courage, and a commitment to growth. And it starts with us. 

If you enjoyed this session or found this post intriguing and want to find out more about how you can make the most of AI, sign up to one of Lawrence’s upcoming Working Smarter with AI and Leading With AI: First Steps To Success courses.  

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Lawrence Green is a seasoned leadership development expert with over 25 years of experience helping leaders navigate complex challenges, unlock human potential, and achieve their most ambitious goals. His passion lies in collaborative intelligence – making the most of what human and artificial intelligence can bring to the table. 

Rather than claiming perfect knowledge of AI, Lawrence brings the perspective of an experienced practitioner who is actively experimenting, learning, and succeeding with AI applications in real business contexts. His focus is on helping others achieve practical, meaningful results through intelligent collaboration with AI tools.